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"I've been getting your weekly mailbag and other e-mails for over a month now, to try to learn more on how to treat my present girlfriend. And with your help, I've learned EXACTLY WHAT I WAS DOING WRONG with past girlfriends!!!.. Totally amazing! And reading your advice, I keep thinking, that it's so easy, and so true on what you say. I've always came off being too nice/needy of a guy. I am above average looking, and above average built, and have dated quite a few gorgeous women. I had the knack of breaking the ice, so to speak, but my "nice guy" personality pushed them away, and now I know why ! I see your method as a two-part series.. #1, getting the girl, #2, KEEPING the girl!! I've never had the problem of #1. #2 is a different story. One piece of advice to your other loyal readers, is that once you get the girl's number, etc, etc, is to "ADHERE TO THE BOOK, always! keep that way of doing things throughout the relationship!" Take it from a retired "nice/needy" Pro. Needy guys finish last!
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Right now I'm working on my next book, and I've been thinking a lot about this exact idea. Here's something I was writing about yesterday...
I have a theory that goes something like this: If you want to keep a woman feeling attracted to you, you need to keep up the cocky/funny, independent, hard-to-get attitude for about 10 dates. After 10 dates it's OK to start being a little more "imperfect", so to speak.
Don't get me wrong... keep it up in some degree forever to keep things interesting. And never become predictable and boring... but the first part of the relationship is particularly sensitive. If you start acting too needy and attentive (calling too much, buying lots of gifts, doing favors) early on, you'll probably either wind up being considered a "friend" or even worse, you'll wind up getting dumped by a girl that you REALLY like because she felt like you were too needy, serious, and "nice."